How Your Environment Impacts Your Practice!

If you have an office space and are seeing clients, as a healer, coach, therapist, masseuse, psychiatrist, doctor, lawyer, insurance agent, yoga instructor, nutritionist, etc, then it’s imperative that you bring your attention to your environment and how it may be impacting your practice.


My personal story about looking for a couples therapist in Miami, which highlights this theme was featured today on Dr. Eva Ritvo’s Blog on Psychology Today.


If you would like to know how to maximize your space for the deepest level of healing, please read this article. At the end there are questions that will help you start looking at your space from symbolic eyes! Also, please provide your comments. I would love to hear your feedback on this topic and it will help me spread my message of the importance of setting on psyche!



Sending amazing chi your way!


Have Fun with your Shway : )




Feng Shui for Love: Get The Love you Want in 2012!

You get Love No Matter What! 

Join me for a Feng Shui Tele-Seminar, Feb 21st & Feb 29th, 6PM-8PM PST, that focuses on the Hub of Love: Your Bedroom!


Your bedroom is always broadcasting about your love life, but is it the message you want to send?


You know this is the right seminar for you if…

  • You are ready to bring in the right partner into your life.
  • You want to improve your current relationship and deepen in your intimacy.
  • You are ready to put the sizzle back into your love life!
  • You can’t sleep in your bedroom and you would like to learn how to turn it into a nurturing space.
  • You want to learn how your bedroom can help you achieve all of these things.

I invite you to take this journey into the heart of your bedroom. Let’s turn it into a sanctuary for love and rejuvenation!


Helping you with creating a sacred space in your life for opening up to greater intimacy and attracting the right relationship is one of my greatest loves. I have personally created a bedroom that magnetizes love for many including myself, and was recently engaged to an amazing man!


I look forward to connecting with you!


This $69 price is good through Feb 17- then it will be $99. 


This Tele-Series will be held on two evenings, Feb 21st & Feb 29th from 6:30PM-8:30 PM PST. 


You will receive a Tele-conference number once you have registered. 


Click here to order

Feng Shui Your Bedroom Part II: Rewrite Your Inner Script and Open Up to Love!


Our last tele-seminar on how to Feng Shui your Bedroom for Love was a big hit.  So we’re doing it again! Only this time we are taking an inside out approach. 

Everyone has an inner monologue about love.

What is yours?

 Does it support you in feeling valuable and worthy of love?  Is it supporting you in manifesting the partnership you desire, or do you catch yourself saying things like

 “All the good men/woman in this city are taken,” or “I’m too old for love,” or I’m too damaged for love, “ “ love is for other people,” or “love belongs in romantic comedies not in real life.”, etc. etc. etc…

 If any of these messages or the many others that you can imagine have crosses your mind, you may be living with a self-sabotaging inner script.

In Our Upcoming Tele-Seminar, you will learn how to:

  • Identify self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors that may be keeping you out love

  •  Replace them with new messages that nurture your self-worth and support you in both feeling attractive and magnetizing love with grace and ease!

  • Raise your love thermostat and keeping it calibrated at the “Soulmate” love level!

We will also review the 15 Bedroom Blunders and how to take your love life from single to sizzle by creating a sanctuary for love in the bedroom.

JOIN ME again from 7:00pm – 8:15 pm Pacific Time on Wedsnday, December 15th 2010.

Click here below to register and receive your dial in number and pin!

I will do my best to answer as many questions as  time permits at the end of the call.

 Please feel free to invite your friends to join us as well.
I can’t wait to be with you on the call.


With Love, 
Inessa Freylekhman, MA    

What is Your Bedroom Broadcasting About You??

Join us for this FREE, live, 75-minute, content-rich Teleclass on Monday November 22, where you will learn how to transform your bedroom into a magnet for love and abundance!

Register and receive your free cal in number and passcode!

Help Your Teen Get in Command of Their Life With Feng Shui!



In Feng Shui, the position of the bed and desk can support your teen in feeling in command of their life, getting better sleep, increased focused, as well as confidence and more security in relationships!

Taking the Commanding Bed Position promotes security in relationship with self and others, as well an improves sleep. Follow these steps below for the ideal arrangement!


1.    A full view of the room with the door in sight is optimal from where they are sleeping for feeling empowered.

2.    Not being able to see the door triggers the old reptilian brain’s flight or fight response system and it basically leaves us feeling exposed, on guard and unsafe.

3.    Make sure that the bed is against a solid wall for security and support.

4.    Stay clear of placing bed under a window.

Taking the Commanding Desk Position encourages focus and concentration and will support your teen in feeling on top of their homework! 

1.    Make sure they are sitting in a chair with a straight back (no gaps)

2.    Their back must be up against a solid wall (no window)

3.    Clear view of the door from where they are sitting.

4.    Don’t face a wall; this can create a sense blockage and stagnation.

Virtual Command Position:  When your teen’s view of the door is obstructed they may be missing important opportunities since they can’t see what’s flowing in and out of their life. If you absolutely can’t change the position of your teen’s desk or bed, then help them get into the virtual command position. The virtual what? Virtual command means that you position a mirror in such a way so that you can see the door from wherever you’re sleeping or working.

There is a web site that sells rearview type mirrors for computers, which would put them in the virtual command position. Check However, any mirror will serve the same purpose-as long as you can see what’s behind you.


If you can’t figure this out, feel free to email me pictures of their room and I will give you feedback!

From Chaos to Cosmos: How You Can Help Your Teen Bring Order to their Bedroom one Shoe at a Time!

Feng Shui is all about creating uplifting environments where we can thrive! Sometimes that means letting go of those things that no longer serve us. The objects in your teen’s room are either empowering or not empowering them and can effect everything from self-worth to productivity.

Clutter can stagnate energy and feels like an overall drain! Support your teen in moving into a deeper conscious relationship with their bedroom by educating them about the benefits of a clutter-free, mindfully-arranged bedroom.

Sometimes the best way to motivate your teen into making a change is by doing it yourself first! So if you haven’t done it already, be a role model and implement this step by step process.

Also, remember, when clearing clutter,turn on some music, put on your red shoes and have some fun! The way you do anything is the way you do everything. If you or your teen is saying, “Yuck I hate my room” while you are cleaning your home it takes away from your good Mojo and defeats the purpose!


1.      Encourage your teen to ask these questions of every object in their room:

·         Do I Love?

·         Do I Need It?

·         Does It Represent Me? 

·         Have I used it In the Last 6 Months?


 If they don’t love it or use it, then it’s time to lose it!


2.      Provide 5 Boxes for the Release!

Box 1: Throw Away

Box 2. Give Away, EBay

Box 3. Keep, But Store

Box 4. Not Sure. Anything your teen is unsure of goes into this box and gets stored away for 6 months.  If after 6 month they can name what’s in the box, or have used any of the objects in the box, then they can keep them, if not, then they have to Lose it!

Box 5: Invite them to keep a Transitional Box somewhere in the room for things that seep in from other sections. Ask them to commit to checking the box once a week and putting things back in their respective homes, before overwhelm and chaos ensue.

3.      Mindfully Arrange Your Room By Creating Clear Functional Zones

Name them like, “Sleep Zone,”  “Work/Study Zone,” ” Art Zone”, etc.  Identify which objects belong in their correct zones. This will help with creating clarity and balance in their mind between the various areas in their life as well as in their space.  Make sure one zone always remains a “Clutter Free Zone,” as a foundation for future progress.

Make this process fun by encouraging your teen to invite friends for support, turn on music, have a release party,  and set up a timeline for achieving their goal. Further help them by creating a budget for containers, cork boards, under bed storage units and anything else that will help them maintain the cosmos in their bedroom.

The All Powerful Entry Way

What surrounds your home can influence your Feng Shui as much as what is inside of your home.

Let me show you how to draw the positive energy of your surroundings to you!


One of the most important enhancements to creating optimal Feng Shui is the entry to your home.

Ideally, your front door area should be well lit, aesthetically pleasing, clearly indicated as the entry, inviting, charming, and give an impression of the home’s tenants. If your front door isn’t visible from the road, then its possible that the chi will pass you by.

Here are some Feng Shui power tools to activate the path leading up to your front door:

1. Illuminate the path of chi to your door with lanterns and lamps.

2. A greeter (statue) welcome good chi!

3.  A water fountain invites abundance, opportunities and creates tranquility.

4. A Chime awakens the chi!

5. A healthy vibrant plant or tree by your front door will strengthen and draw good chi!

6. A friendly saying or door hanging invites both good chi and friendly people.

7. Clear dry shrubs, weeds, or anything unpleasant that may be weakening your chi.

8. Make sure there are no obstructions or anything blocking the door and your good chi.

9. The sound the door makes can condition your chi and experience of your home. Use oil/wd40 to counteract screechy whiny doors.

10.  A bright red, gold, blue, or green floor mat will energize this area.

11. If you enter through the garage, make it a practice to enter through the front door regularly to keep the chi flowing and circulating.

12. If you live in an indoor apartment/condo building and there isn’t much you can do to the outside of your front door due to building regulations, then work to enhance the immediate foyer area by hanging a crystal, a mirror, a fountain and any of the above will work just as well to invite good chi into your life.

Remember having an inviting entry way can summon good chi and enhance your life force energy. Making it attractive draws in the energy you need to accomplish anything you want in life!

Beyond Feng Shui


Anytime you make a Feng Shui adjustment to your home, make sure to couple it with your intention. Intention is the motor behind Feng Shui.

As a matter of fact, I would say that Intention is the motor behind mostly everything. Before there was man, there was the creators’ intent for man.Before there were planes, car and computers there was mans’ intent for ways of making life easier and more efficient.

Many people don’t realize that they are practicing Feng Shui every day. Anytime you bring mindfulness to anything you do, you are practicing the art of placement.

By placing your attention onto your intention,  all things flow to you and life becomes a river of abundance.

When I think about my life and how I use intention, my mind is drawn to those moments where I feel most stuck, overwhelmed, confused and hopeless. It is at those times that I go still, cease what ever I am doing, get in touch with myself trough my breath and ask the creator/universe for light, love and to lift me from the place inside where I feel funky.

Sometimes it happens right away and at other times I go about my day and a few hours pass annd I think, Wow, I’m feeling particularly good, how did this happen? Then I remember that moment where I practiced the art of Feng Shui. That moment were I placed my intention for the universe to lift my negativity and support me.

Next time you are feeling like you want to give up or like everything seems to be going wrong, stop what you are doing, take a breath, look inside and ask for divine assistance. You won’t regret it. I promise.

Feng Shui for your Office for Success!

Whether you’re in a corner suite, a cubicle, or home office, Feng Shui can help you create more harmony, flow and productivity in your work. There are several excellent Feng Shui configurations that promote more success in your career

Here are 3 things you can do right now to promote more flow and harmony in your office

1.    Place yourself in the Commanding position:In Feng Shui, the position of your desk can support you in feeling more empowered and in command of your life!

·         Make sure to sit in a chair with a straight back (no gaps-they leak life force energy)

·         Your back must be facing a solid wall (no window)

·         Make sure you have a clear view of the door from where you are sitting.

·         Don’t face a wall; this can create a sense of blockage and stagnation in your career. If there’s no way around it, then get a mirror or a picture that creates the illusion of depth and expansion .

·         If you can’t change the position of your desk, then get into the virtual command position. The virtual what? The virtual command means that you position a mirror in such a way so that you can see the door from wherever you are sleeping or working. That way, you don’t actually have to move your location. There is a web site that sells rear view type mirrors for computers, which would put you in the virtual command position. Check, any mirror will serve the same purpose-as long as you can see what’s behind you


2.    If you’re Walls Could Talk What Would the Say about You?

Studies show that people know more about you from looking in your room for 15 seconds than talking with you at a party for 30 minutes. Use the walls in your office to send a powerful message about you.

·         Impression Wall: Use the wall behind your desk to make a strong impression and send a message about you and/or

           your company to the world.

·         Mastery Wall:  Make one wall or section of your office depict your skill and training. Items such as awards, certificates,

          pictures of  wise mentors and achievements work well here. In Feng Shui terms, the best area for this is the “Skills/Wisdom”

          section, which is the right hand corner closest to the front door.

·               Inspiration Wall/Area: Surround yourself with things you truly love. The best wall for inspiration is the one directly

                 in front of your desk. What you focus on grows, so use this wall to condition your thoughts in the direction of your desires.


3.    Bring in the 5 elements: Water, Fire, Earth, Metal and Wood to create a human comfort zone.


Have you wondered why most office buildings include a park or an atrium? A happy worker is a productive worker. Proximity to nature affects our physiology in real measurable ways. In Feng Shui, that is why we strive to create nature indoors. Even if you feel like  you are flooded with so much work that you don’t have the time to walk outside or muse over your fish tank, or the well groomed bonsai, do not feel deterred, by having touches of nature in your environment, you can re-connect to the natural world in a very real, deep and meaningful way.

Here are some ways of introducing these elements into your office:

·         Water: Encourages flexibility, intuition, and new opportunities. Use a water fountain, a picture of water closest to the entry way, or in the far left hand corner.

·         Wood: Secures foundation in all ventures. Plants, bamboo and live flowers will bring in life force energy and a wooden desk will give stability in relationships.

·         Metal: Inspires creativity. Introduce bells, standing chimes, or anything that makes a pleasant sound.

·         Earth: Ensures Stability through difficult times. Ceramics, yellow, sand, rocks, etc.

·         Fire: Improves and protects reputation. Candles, lights, pointy objects like cactus, pyramids, etc

Last, but not least, make sure your desk is clutter fee. The most successful people in the world have clean desks. The less stuff on your desk the more space in your mind for generating brilliant new ideas!