Our last tele-seminar on how to Feng Shui your Bedroom for Love was a big hit. So we’re doing it again! Only this time we are taking an inside out approach.
Everyone has an inner monologue about love.
What is yours?
Does it support you in feeling valuable and worthy of love? Is it supporting you in manifesting the partnership you desire, or do you catch yourself saying things like…
“All the good men/woman in this city are taken,” or “I’m too old for love,” or I’m too damaged for love, “ “ love is for other people,” or “love belongs in romantic comedies not in real life.”, etc. etc. etc…
If any of these messages or the many others that you can imagine have crosses your mind, you may be living with a self-sabotaging inner script.
In Our Upcoming Tele-Seminar, you will learn how to:
Identify self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors that may be keeping you out love
Replace them with new messages that nurture your self-worth and support you in both feeling attractive and magnetizing love with grace and ease!
Raise your love thermostat and keeping it calibrated at the “Soulmate” love level!
We will also review the 15 Bedroom Blunders and how to take your love life from single to sizzle by creating a sanctuary for love in the bedroom.
JOIN ME again from 7:00pm – 8:15 pm Pacific Time on Wedsnday, December 15th 2010.
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In Feng Shui, the position of the bed and desk can support your teen in feeling in command of their life, getting better sleep, increased focused, as well as confidence and more security in relationships!
Taking the Commanding Bed Position promotes security in relationship with self and others, as well an improves sleep. Follow these steps below for the ideal arrangement!
1.A full view of the room with the door in sight is optimal from where they are sleeping for feeling empowered.
2.Not being able to see the door triggers the old reptilian brain’s flight or fight response system and it basically leaves us feeling exposed, on guard and unsafe.
3.Make sure that the bed is against a solid wall for security and support.
4.Stay clear of placing bed under a window.
Taking the Commanding Desk Position encourages focus and concentration and will support your teen in feeling on top of their homework!
1.Make sure they are sitting in a chair with a straight back (no gaps)
2.Their back must be up against a solid wall (no window)
3.Clear view of the door from where they are sitting.
4.Don’t face a wall; this can create a sense blockage and stagnation.
Virtual Command Position:When your teen’s view of the door is obstructed they may be missing important opportunities since they can’t see what’s flowing in and out of their life. If you absolutely can’t change the position of your teen’s desk or bed, then help them get into the virtual command position. The virtual what? Virtual command means that you position a mirror in such a way so that you can see the door from wherever you’re sleeping or working.
There is a web site that sells rearview type mirrors for computers, which would put them in the virtual command position. Check www.monitormirror.com. However, any mirror will serve the same purpose-as long as you can see what’s behind you.
If you can’t figure this out, feel free to email me pictures of their room and I will give you feedback!
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Feng Shui is all about creating uplifting environments where we can thrive! Sometimes that means letting go of those things that no longer serve us. The objects in your teen’s room are either empowering or not empowering them and can effect everything from self-worth to productivity.
Clutter can stagnate energy and feels like an overall drain! Support your teen in moving into a deeper conscious relationship with their bedroom by educating them about the benefits of a clutter-free, mindfully-arranged bedroom.
Sometimes the best way to motivate your teen into making a change is by doing it yourself first! So if you haven’t done it already, be a role model and implement this step by step process.
Also, remember, when clearing clutter,turn on some music, put on your red shoes and have some fun! The way you do anything is the way you do everything. If you or your teen is saying, “Yuck I hate my room” while you are cleaning your home it takes away from your good Mojo and defeats the purpose!
1.Encourage your teen to ask these questions of every object in their room:
·Do I Love?
·Do I Need It?
·Does It Represent Me?
·Have I used it In the Last 6 Months?
If they don’t love it or use it, then it’s time to lose it!
2.Provide 5 Boxes for the Release!
Box 1: Throw Away
Box 2. Give Away, EBay
Box 3. Keep, But Store
Box 4. Not Sure. Anything your teen is unsure of goes into this box and gets stored away for 6 months.If after 6 month they can name what’s in the box, or have used any of the objects in the box, then they can keep them, if not, then they have to Lose it!
Box 5: Invite them to keep a Transitional Box somewhere in the room for things that seep in from other sections. Ask them to commit to checking the box once a week and putting things back in their respective homes, before overwhelm and chaos ensue.
3.Mindfully Arrange Your Room By Creating Clear Functional Zones
Name them like, “Sleep Zone,”“Work/Study Zone,” ” Art Zone”, etc.Identify which objects belong in their correct zones. This will help with creating clarity and balance in their mind between the various areas in their life as well as in their space.Make sure one zone always remains a “Clutter Free Zone,” as a foundation for future progress.
Make this process fun by encouraging your teen to invite friends for support, turn on music, have a release party, and set up a timeline for achieving their goal. Further help them by creating a budget for containers, cork boards, under bed storage units and anything else that will help them maintain the cosmos in their bedroom.
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What surrounds your home can influence your Feng Shui as much as what is inside of your home.
Let me show you how to draw the positive energy of your surroundings to you!
One of the most important enhancements to creating optimal Feng Shui is the entry to your home.
Ideally, your front door area should be well lit, aesthetically pleasing, clearly indicated as the entry, inviting, charming, and give an impression of the home’s tenants. If your front door isn’t visible from the road, then its possible that the chi will pass you by.
Here are some Feng Shui power tools to activate the path leading up to your front door:
1. Illuminate the path of chi to your door with lanterns and lamps.
2. A greeter (statue) welcome good chi!
3. A water fountain invites abundance, opportunities and creates tranquility.
4. A Chime awakens the chi!
5. A healthy vibrant plant or tree by your front door will strengthen and draw good chi!
6. A friendly saying or door hanging invites both good chi and friendly people.
7. Clear dry shrubs, weeds, or anything unpleasant that may be weakening your chi.
8. Make sure there are no obstructions or anything blocking the door and your good chi.
9. The sound the door makes can condition your chi and experience of your home. Use oil/wd40 to counteract screechy whiny doors.
10. A bright red, gold, blue, or green floor mat will energize this area.
11. If you enter through the garage, make it a practice to enter through the front door regularly to keep the chi flowing and circulating.
12. If you live in an indoor apartment/condo building and there isn’t much you can do to the outside of your front door due to building regulations, then work to enhance the immediate foyer area by hanging a crystal, a mirror, a fountain and any of the above will work just as well to invite good chi into your life.
Remember having an inviting entry way can summon good chi and enhance your life force energy. Making it attractive draws in the energy you need to accomplish anything you want in life!
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Stuff, Stuff, Stuff!!! Who doesn’t have at least one thing they cant live without? Whether it be your Starbucks latte in the morning that makes you 10 minutes late for work, or those Jimmy Choo shoes on sale at Sacks that you absolutely must have, or another little black dress to add to your collection of cocktail attire, we all have at least one piece of “STUFF” that
we hold onto for dear life!
If you’re anything like me, you have two or more. Come to think about it you may have 4 or more.
I’m talking here about the old pictures you hang onto and never look at that are in the garage, or worse under your bed, or how about the clothing from 1960 that you keep around for your grandchildren, the stuffed animals from childhood, the poetry from your former flames that reminds you of how hot you “used to be”, and all the Journals from 5th grade that are holding you in some form of adolescence, and wait what about all of those socks that have lost their mates, but you know that one day some day you will find the other pair, so you have a collection of onzees for an eternity. Not to mention your single status has been on place for just about as long.
In Feng Shui, the quality of your chi (life force energy) determines the quality of your life, which is determined by the quality of your….
I’m not talking about the Bugs Bunny kind of animation folks!
Environmental animation is likened to really good Chi, like really good sushi vs. grocery quality.
Chi is everywhere and it’s not like you are ever at a loss. It’s just that some chi is more “animated” and some is.. well I hate to use this word, but DEAD!
When I walk into peoples homes, I can clearly see the quality of their chi in their living environments. Animated chi has an overall purpose and a lively joyful quality, wheres dead chi would rather be dead, pun definitely intended.
Here are some basic mathematical equations of Feng Shui that will help you in working through your Stuff.
Stuff = energy
Energy doesn’t always = stuff
The more energy you have, the better you feel=all of the time!
The more stuff you have, the better you feel=never, or short lived
contended that non-human objects also have souls. I know its hard to process that your Coach hand bag has a soul, or that your shag slippers your ex gave you have one too, but I’m not kidding you. I believe it was Thomas Moore who said that all objects contain a motor quality, which means they are running and some are running out of gas, so make sure you can tell the difference.
Caveat: For those people that have a more serious problem and have either classified themselves or been professionally diagnosed with “Hoarding”, then my Simple Clutter Busters Tips below may not be enough to support your healing and growth at this time. I have been in homes where the degree of stuff grows in proportion to a persons level of mental/emotional/physical and spiritual well-being and you may need more support.
If you find that your attachment with your stuff is overpowering you , please visit the resource page below for help:
Bust your Stuff Baby! 3 Steps to Clear the Clutter
Do I need it?
Do I love it?
Does it make me feel good?
Does it support my intention or inspire me?
Does it belong here (if not move it to where it does!)
Have I used it in the last 6 months?
If the Answer is “NO” then…………
Give it away, throw it away or ebay!
If the Answer is “I don’t know” then…..
Put it in a box date it, come back in 6 months with a trusted friend and if you can’t name everything in that box then its “Clutter” and give, throw or ebay.
3. If the Answer is “Yes” then… it’s a “Lovable” and you can Keep it!!
***If your stuff feels bigger then you, please grab a chair, or a latter and literally get “bigger” then your stuff. Tell the stuff who is boss and decide that you want to live a life full of freedom, joy, bills, abundance and ANIMATED CHI!
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A few years ago, I made a transformational journey to Bali, Indonesia to study Space Clearing with Karen Kingston the clutter and space clearing expert. Even before my trip, I began to slowly release some of the “stuff” that had been bogging down my consciousness and life.
Her philosophy is that everything has energy in it and even if you can’t see it -on some level it’s either depleting or giving you positive energy. For example, things you hold onto out of fear, worry, concern, lack or guilt would be considered energy drainers, but things you keep around you because they make a positive impression on your life would be considered energy enhancers-not in her exact words, but this is the way I have interpreted it and teach it to my students.
One of the things I always encourage myself and my clients to release is ex-memorabilia-especially if it’s from a relationship that is toxic-but really any relationship that has your thoughts and feelings in a holding pattern. If you’re life is filled with stuff from memory lane, then it’s really challenging to live fully in the present and receive the newness this moment has to offer you. Especially a new partner!
Let the truth be told.
Up until those weeks before my trip, I had been holding onto a box of “stuff” from a very brief but blistering relationship. Actually that’s not completely accurate. Technically speaking the “stuff” wasn’t in my house. I had to give the stuff to a friend to hold at her apartment, so I wouldn’t be tempted to look at it every 3 months, 3 weeks, 3 days, 3 hours, 3 minutes, 3 seconds.
The box sat in her apartment and although I never saw it, I was still connected to it. The very fact that I couldn’t have it around says that it still brought up old feelings that were unprocessed. A part of my denial was the story I told myself that the stuff was art. I felt it was disrespectful to throw it away. I had huge plans to do something creative with it. Like write a script or make a collage out of it. The idea that I would make it into art is what I call holding onto unfinished business for a someday one day that most likely never comes. Clearly I use myself as the guinea pig for my theories. I was never going to make art out of it and was just holding onto it and let’s be honest folks, because I wasn’t over the guy, no matter how unhealthy the relationship had been.
It was not until a week before I left to Bali and caught the momentum of the deep clearing work I was about to partake in when I finally mustered the courage and with the support of my dear friend took the package and threw it in the ocean.
It wasn’t that easy and not just because I feared a group of environmentalists would catch me and give me a ticket for polluting the ocean, but because the package came sailing right back to my feet both times I tossed it into the rolling waves.
Out of frustration and desperation, I tore apart the package and ripped each page into tiny pieces and blessed it. I thanked the man whose words were now bleeding threw the pages. I thanked him for opening me, for gifting me with his love and once again released it into the ocean. I released the jewels and all the bling he gave me too. I kept blessing and releasing until all that was left was the fruit printed wall paper packaging I had used to keep all those pages and gifts together in one bundle.
It was then when I, or should I say my dear friend that was there with me for support, made the startling realization that part of the reason, I hadn’t manifested a new lover was quite simply because this man had stock in my yoni!
For all who don’t know that word yet, a yoni is a woman’s vagina.
Yes, out of sight was not out of mind, or out of my energy grid. I was still connected to him on many levels through these romantic offerings he had given me, but not anymore. I took back my energy. I thought it would be much more devastated by the loss of the art, but I realize that I gained much more. I transmuted the gift through the cleansing waters of the ocean. The part of myself I had given away was mine again.
I got my yoni back!
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Clutter may be anything you hold onto that is unfinished, unused, unresolved, tolerated or disorganized. It’s not just your stuff, but it’s the people and the situations you stay in, and the negative thoughts that get stuck in your head. In this workshop we will not only support you in clearing and releasing your physical and mental clutter, but in creating the life you want with Feng Shui!!
Are you ready to create an environment that empowers, stimulates and supports you?
In this workshop, you will learn………
· The 9 Classic Feng Shui Cures and how to apply them to Correct Any Imbalance!
· The Top 10 organizing Challenges and their Solutions!
· The 4 D’s of Releasing Clutter!
· How to Turn a Bedroom Blunder into Heart-Centered Wonder!
Karen Embree, a professional organizer for 7 years, supports individuals in organizing their homes, offices and lives. She developed the Fresh Beginnings Workshop, an interactive program which assists participants to clear their mind clutter and connect with their heart’s desires. Karen has been featured on the KLBC.org radio show ALL THINGS ORGANIZED and interviewed in Orange Coast Magazine. As a member of the professional organizations NAPO and ONOC, she is a noted speaker, organizing coach and workshop facilitator. You can contact Karen on the web at www.Cr8vOrganizedSolutions.com.
Inessa Freylekhman was worked as a Feng Shui practitioner for 8 years,a Relationship Coach & Teen Empowerment Trainer. She holds a Masters Degree in Spiritual Psychology. Her work has appeared in LA Yoga Magazine, on KPFK, Star 98.7 (in LA) & KKNW 1150 AM in Seattle and on various Internet Radio Talk Shows.She currently resides in Seattle and her mission is to Feng Shui One Home & One Heart At A Time. You can contact her on the web at www.fengshuifromtheheart.com or
425.894.1783 (WA) 310.926.2722 (LA)
“Healing One Room, One Heart at a Time” Inessa
“I call her the Mary Poppins of Feng Shui. She immediately spotted the weak areas in my home, and in my life, and
using a combination of coaching skills and Feng Shui art, suggested “remedies” that call me into a deeper
conscious relationship with myself and my world. I now feel much better at my desk-my holy space for writing and creating-as well as generally in my home, I highly recommend that you give yourself this gift!”
Elana Golden, Screenwriter, director, teacher, Founder of The Writing Studio
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Feng Shui for Manifesting Divine Partnership-August Special!
For those of you who Prefer the Facts!
*DISCOUNTED RATE FOR THE MONTH OF AUGUST FOR YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY IN THE L.A. / Santa Monica/Ventura county/Orange County and Neighboring Areas!
2 hour Feng Shui Session + two 15 minute phone follow ups = $200, Reg. price $350 for woman and or men who are ready to manifest divine partnership, but have felt blocked in the past, and are now willing to make the necessary internal and external changes to their home and in their heart for the love they want!
Would you like to move to the next level in your current relationship?
If you’re someone that wants to call in a divine partnership, but feels energetically blocked and would like some support, then this is for you!
It’s a part of my purpose to provide Feng Shui services to support men and woman in opening up to experiencing divine partnerships! Our homes and bedrooms reflect exactly how we feel about ourselves and what we think we deserve when it when it comes to Love!
Feng Shui for Love can erase and clear out the old imprints that have to do with lack and settling, and create inroads for new healthy patterns in your relationships!
Feng Shui for Love will remedy all bedroom romance zappers in a heart-beat! This will change your energy frequency so that you become a magnet for attracting the love you want!
I will be in California between 8/24-9/7 offering this exciting opportunity to Feng Shui your Home for Love (with a specific focus on your bedroom!)
I’m offering a 2 hour on-site consultation + two 15 minute follow up calls for $200, Reg priced at $350, only for those woman and/or men who are ready and committed to manifest divine beloved partnership, but have felt blocked in the past, and are now willing to make the necessary internal and external changes in their home and heart for the love they want!
If you are ready to create more space on the “inner” and “outer” to experience divine partnership, then I encourage you to set up an appointment with me right away
I look forward to serving you!
Please call: 310.926.2722 or reply to this email! Thanks!
“I had the fortunate opportunity of working with Inessa to Feng Shui my home to bring in a new relationship. I was amazed that we were able to work over the phone using photos and floor plan. I really enjoyed her insight, humor, and knowledge. Over the years I had picked up some information about Feng Shui, but after my first session with Inessa, it was very clear that her skill and love of the craft exceeded anything that I knew. Each week I was able to look at my life and see how my living space was contributing to what I am creating. We worked most on my bedroom and now every time I walk into my room I feel the difference and I am reminded of the intentions I have set forward for my life and relationships. If you are thinking about exploring Feng Shui, I would absolutely recommend Inessa. It was a real treat to work with her.” – Anita Coats, USM Grad
“Thanks to Inessa, there is now a palbably peaceful and well-intentioned energy grid in my home. She has a very encouraging and coolly refined touch, and it was really fun getting feng shui’d. I love this new spatial connectivity in my home, and it has helped me in leaps and bounds with all the freed up positive energy I have for my life. It’s like a new guiding philosophy and I love it.”-Kevin Wile, Filmmaker, USM Grad
“ I call her the Mary Poppins of Feng Shui. She immediately spotted the weak
areas in my home, and in my life, and using a combination of USM
skills and Feng Shui art, suggested “remedies” that call me into a
deeper conscious relationship with myself and my world. I now feel
much better at my desk – my holy space for writing and creating – as
well as generally in my home. I highly recommend that you give
yourself this gift!”
“Sweet Inessa is nothing less than a miracle worker! After resisting her Fung Shui for more than a few months, I
have finally decided to give her a shot. Now, faster than I have ever imagined, all my dreams are manifesting
right in front of me!!! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I am forever grateful!!!
One HAPPY & JOYFULL Customer, Lauren Gale, Author
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